Since, KK vouched for you, I will keep it short.
You are being played. Plain and simple.
This sounds like fear mongering to me.
From Wikipedia:
"Fear mongering (or scaremongering or scare tactics) is the use of fear to influence the opinions and actions of others towards some specific end. The feared object or subject is sometimes exaggerated, and the pattern of fear mongering is usually one of repetition, in order to continuously reinforce the intended effects of this tactic, sometimes in the form of a vicious circle."
I voted NO!
After reading this I wish I could vote no again!!!
Superstar, please understand this is not directed at you, but, at the people who are feeding this info to you.
I will pray for your son and his family.