Never. I judge how you present them, as helpless victims. I've worked decades to raise people up from seeing themselves as victims. You shove them down to dependency in your posts. As helpless unless you control their future. Thats no way to dig out and have a future. Only ones that sets goals and places those in action crawl out. Dr Ben is a Great Example. Be Positive, not Jealous. Youre assigning thoughts unsaid and unthought.