I hope you and your family make it, Sharpshooter! And Bird Dog , I hope you understand that, "I am and always will be on the drivers side". You mis-understood me and you assume that, "now", is any different than yesterday. I've been on call for 24 hrs., and mowed yards all day long! I make chairs in my garage, on call. I've done truck oil changes and grease jobs, on call. I've givin up time with my kids, my wife has worked double shifts at Waffle house , just to make the bills. So you're preaching to the choir. Gravy don't come without the "Blood, Sweat and Tears", 10-4 driver. I have a ton of compassion, but, I only have sympathy for the family of the fallin soldier, the child with "Down syndrome" or anything close, and the victims of violent crimes. So, suck it up and get a second job, or leave!