Believe whatever you wish, you throw out the brothers and sisters line, I know I am dealing with a phony. Every person that ever said that at my terminal was a scammer trying to get their way.
I have fellow employees, I work for a salary and benefits, I am not concerned about anyone's problems or family before mine. I don't wish any Ill will or bad to happen, but your life is your responsibility, and mine is mine.
That is called honesty, save the brothers and sisters crap for someone else.