true about some men, and the failure to take care of themselves with regular exams, especially when we hit a "certain age"...
when i was teaching, a student asked me what is involved in a DOT exam.
when i told him, then jokingly added " a prostrate exam", he went ballistic saying how much no one, no how was going to DO THAT to him.....
then i got serious and asked, wouldn't you want to know if you had a cancer that can be cured...??
he continued his tirade and said, screw it, i don't care, yadda, yadda, yadda....
then i settled him done ( a bit) and told him the "finger exam" is NOT a part of the dot, but HIGHLY RECOMMENDED for men over the age of 40, which back then, he clearly was.
i went on to say, ok, you may not want to go....
but i can most certainly guarantee, that some day...YOUR WIFE will MAKE YOU go......
to wit he said.....
she can have her bags packed right now........
well......maybe someday, he will change his mind, especially if his brother (also a student of mine) gets cancer, or his dad, or someone else close to him......
all i can hope and pray for is that ALL MEN, grow the "F" up and take good care of themselves......
and you and i (and the rest here) all too well know......the men we have seen in just this industry alone.....
that COULD take better care of themselves.
by the way...an update...
my "Richard" doesn't hurt so much, if at all now......
the pain of that scope insertion from yesterday, has nearly 100% gone away....
it's the NEXT visit that will determine after THAT procedure, whether or not i get to wear a bag for a few days.....
and if that happens, no p/t for my back, till the bag is removed...