Here's one way to **** them off....Let them hold you then when they let you leave tell them you too fatigue to drive and want a hotel room. The thing is everyone from you barn need to do this and I mean everyone. You can not have anyone cave stand you ground. When you barn has no freight to delivery, truck to drive, and a complete cluster f the next night they might learn something. The big word is might.
If they give you sh1t tell then you want to talk to the director of safety and you will wait while they get a hold of him. Then quote him FMCSA 392.3
"No driver shall operate a commercial motor vehicle, and a motor carrier shall not require or permit a driver to operate a commercial motor vehicle, while the driver's ability or alertness is so impaired, or so likely to become impaired, through fatigue, illness, or any other cause, as to make it unsafe for him/her to begin or continue to operate the commercial motor vehicle. However, in a case of grave emergency where the hazard to occupants of the commercial motor vehicle or other users of the highway would be increased by compliance with this section, the driver may continue to operate the commercial motor vehicle to the nearest place at which that hazard is removed."
They really hate it when you throw safety in there face
Remember Safety first