Listen we all get the managers way of speaking to employees... talking in circles, insinuating things, and avoiding questions so spare us. Now back to the facts about our insurance compared to theirs, our premiums, deductibles, and co pays are higher than their's plus our best plan is 80/20 vs 85/15. Those are facts no opinions. I don't expect you to take the energy to look at upsf plan and compare it to ours, because even if you did it be some mumbo jumbo and you wouldn't be allowed to speak objectively about it.
You don't know me, what i do, or how I do it......so it would behoove you to not lump me in with your concept of "manager-speak". I dont have an issue with your argument, i just choose to point out that you actually weaken what might actually be effective arguments by interjecting irrelevant opinions into your message.
Is it really a managers job to convince you about anything? I don't believe it is, dont rely on anyone else to tell me what my thoughts are, so I wouldnt presume to do it to anyone else. I do like to ask questions that might make others think or challenge their beliefs. You choose to take those as arguments or even attacks. Discussing something objectively involves probing questions that might make the other person re-think their position or you yours, bringing value to the conversation.
You provided 4 pieces of information, which appear to be factual and could be compelling to a person who is solely focused on those 4 criteria. I might require more information before i made my decision because those particular 4 areas may not be as relevant to my situation as they are to yours. That doesnt make me stupid, dense, or any of the other colorful names you utilize, it is the freedom I have to be responsible for my own decisions.
For instance, i might ask if life insurance or short term or long term disability is provided as part of their health benefits package. I honestly dont know that answer, maybe someone else here does, but it would certainly be a factor to some one that places a high value on those items and can objectively weigh them against the obvious premium differences, co pays and extra percentage points for costs above the deductible. Again, no idea what the answer is to that question, nor how each person would value it, but i certainly wouldnt be short-sighted enough to call them stupid if their opinion differred from mine after they weighed it out.
Not sure what struck me to get on here today, boredom maybe, but you can return to your regularly scheduled program now.....
Be safe!
AF